Also, our current salaries leave us with financial surplus every month. The first wife has spoken ill of me and my husband. Your husband loves the challenge – and the stress – of his job. He stated that he needed 3 months to take care of them. I do vaguely remember that sex was better - that feeling of being fulled so completely. But, he decided to take the job to meet his financial goals. He’s hot and cold. I have to say my husband loves me more than his kids. My Husband Puts His Family Before Me. A few relationships I've been in until I met my husband had been open, which I enjoy because I like meeting new people and forming those kinds of relationships. My ex and I are trying to see if we can be friends again. He may be joking with them, backing them up or supporting them more than you. I have been married for 9 months and love my husband. But it was a long time ago, and the memory has already faded. Hot and cold behavior manifests when we’re in a state of emotional confusion and turmoil, and nothing can create these feelings quite like being broken up with someone who you still have feelings for.. After all, we all think about an ex now and then. He's going to stay with me, but I feel as though he's only with me because he's obligated. Your husband’s job is meeting his needs in some way. He Calls You by His Ex's Name These Freudian slips of the tongue could be meaningless. He cries and tells you about his feelings for her when he's drunk. i got married for 7 years. Though it is possible that he's past his ex and just likes some of her family members, says Greer. It seems like my husband loves his job and making money more than he loves me.” 1. My ex and i ended on bad terms he was leading me on and ended up dating someone in less than a few days after the break up, at first he liked all my instagram pictures but i stopped liking his pictures since the day we broke up cause he blocked me after leading me on and also unblocked me after that and now he’s stopped liking all my pics too. We were very in love and talked about marriage and our futures but I had moved for him and I was in a lot of situations that caused high anxiety and depression. But if it happens at times when your husband should be completely focused on you, then you have to recognize that he is subconsciously living out this marriage with someone else in your role. I can see how in love with her my husband is. How can I ever get over this feeling? Instead, he mentions her when it's really inappropriate, such as during an argument when he tells you what she would say so that he can prove you wrong, or when he's telling you he loves you and weirdly says something about her that makes you feel like he's comparing you to her. Her husband just recently left her and they started going out to lunch together behind my back. Every time she asks for something he jumps to do it. He's very honest about the fact that he loves her, but he says his commitment is to me and to our family. he tortures me silently. It doesn't make me think less of my husband. A mutual friend joked that she probably spent more time in hotel rooms than in her own bedroom when she was younger. He does everything with her. coming to my husband though i have all this property which will come to us in future he is still not happy. My husband is nice to everyone but me and my middle child! He loves her more than he loved me. He might not bring up his ex when you're shopping or doing something chilled together. 10. It seems though he won't let go of his ex wife. i am the only daughter my husband got 10lakh rupees as dowry from me. Well, unfortunately for anyone who was actually genuinely concerned about the probability of this, a new study found that your boyfriend does, in fact, love his friends more than he loves you. He loves them to bits but in a totally different way. I couldn’t last year because his ex-wife wasn’t ready to meet me, and I understood that. and i have 1crore rupees of property with my parents. I don’t trust her any more, as this sounds to me like someone else, not my … 5.) It also matters if he has kids with his ex—that makes a little more sense, Klow says. How in the world can I save my marriage and get my husband home to his kids when he thinks he’s found what he’s always been looking for in this woman?” This is a very difficult situation. But no way would I ever trade or risk my relationship with my husband for sex with the ex. I love them both equally but in different ways. This does not necessarily mean that they come first, but may be a show of loyalty. I know they were married for 11 years and knew each other for 16, but I feel like the completely goes agaist everything I ask of him. The other day, I got an email from a wife who told me: "my husband is in love with someone else. He was so proud of her. This is one of the major signs he still loves his ex and is merely finding ways of being a part of her life in some way. This probably seems silly but I feel like I have to fight for any attention from my husband with my step daughter! hi, plz read my story with patience.i am seriously in need of help. Hello everyone my name is Susan from UK i never ever believed in spell until i meet a man called Dr eduka who help me cast a spell that bring back my ex-lover who left me for six months, His spells works beyond my imaginations and today i am happily married with two kids and me and my [ex-lover] now husband are very happy more than ever before,what more can i say rather than to say … I have been married to my husband for 9 years who i love deeply he is he is a wonderful provider for me and my 2 children a boy18 and a girl 15(who are not his ) but he treats them as his own, he works hard for us but its always been a void due to him not being able to communicate his feelings with me which os something that i crave like sex! When we got married on July 27, 2015, the first month, we start to have problems. She gets anything she wants from dad because (he has come right out and told me) he feels guilty because she doesn’t live with us! It may be that when your husband is around his family, he slots into these natural patterns, which may leave no obvious space for you. He put his family as a priority over me. My ex has a larger penis than my husband. MORE: 11 Undeniable Signs He’s In Love With You 2. Love can't be measured, every time we fall in love it's different because every person is unique and so our feelings towards them will be. He posted so many pictures of her and him on his facebook page, tons of them together. I think my husband loves his girlfriend more than me My husband and I have been married for about two years now. He wants to keep the peace Even though I am financially independent with my own assets, and we have a pre-nup, the ex and child fear my grabbing his … I don’t understand I don’t try to do anything but help I don’t even ask for his help on everything I do everything alone and I take care of the kids without asking for help. He treats me worse then he treats our dog! Dear Dr. Buckingham, I have been reading a lot of your articles. Because when the husband is walking around in this fog of infatuation, there’s very little that you can do until he starts to come down to reality – but that can and does usually happen. “My husband even paid for her school so she could continue her studies and pay her bills.